So here it is. Your jokes suck.
Sometimes I laugh at them, but they still suck. And I wish you'd stop.
Vulgarity and negativity are two things I do not appreciate. If you've ever wondered why I've peaced out so quickly, there's a good chance that one of these two things were the reason.
Here's the deal: Negative humor is humor that does harm, not good. And humor is supposed to be a good thing.
If you're filling your jokes with the f-bomb, tits, jews, blacks, blowjobs, fags, pubes, women in the kitchen, or any other topic that you haven't grown up enough yet to understand, you aren't funny.
Profanity and vulgarity are a cop-out. Let me say that once more. Your jokes are a cop-out.
It says to me that you don't have a real sense of humor. You have zero creativity.
Go read the definition of 'joke' in the dictionary. Notice in addition to 'something said or done for amusement,' it also says, 'a worthless thing or person.'
The subject of your joke is made worthless by your words.
Next time you crack a crude joke about sex, remember that you're subconsciously drilling it into your head (and everyone else around you) that women are worthless.
Next time you crack a joke about fags, ask yourself if you'd walk up to any human being and tell them to their face that they're worthless.
Guys, I'm looking primarily at you on this one, because it seems to be where most of it is coming from. Yeah, it's true that girls want guys with a sense of humor. That's one of the first things on all of our lists. But here's a secret: the women worth having are looking for men with good humor. Not negative humor. So step it up.
Girls, next time some guy cracks a joke about how a woman doesn't need a driver's license because it doesn't take a car to get between the kitchen in the bedroom, stand up for yourself and fight. If you laugh too, you're putting yourself down. We're allowing it. And I'm sick of it.
Oh, and girls? I'm not done with you yet. Quit joking that all men are assholes, or that the female race is superior. They're not, and we're not. You're making it worse for both of us.
There is an element of truth to all jokes, which arguably is what makes them so 'funny.' I challenge you to listen to yourself and to your friends, and pick out who or what is the brunt of your jokes. Go face yourself in the mirror and ask yourself some hard questions. Think about the truth that you are agreeing to, without realizing it.
The truth you believe is communicated through your jokes. Think I'm taking this too seriously? I'm not going to apologize for looking for a good man with a real sense of humor, who can make me laugh without the bite. And trust me, I'm looking.
Don't allow yourself to crack a joke if it's at someone else's expense. Hard, huh?
The good news is that negative humor is a habit. And habits are breakable. I did it. It was hard, but I did it.
Stop telling jokes that suck. You're hurting yourself, and a lot of other people.